Relationships and dating
Women and men in Australia are on an equal level in relationships. Both can decide whether to date, enter or leave a committed relationship with someone, or marry someone. Same sex (homosexual) relationships are legally accepted. Many couples are sexually intimate but do not marry. Younger couples in particular are often “boyfriend” and “girlfriend” but will spend most of their time hanging out with mutual friends. In short, there is no “right” or “only” way to be in a relationship with someone. If you have special feelings for someone, use one golden rule: make sure you feel safe and comfortable at all times.
Use extra care if you decide to be physically intimate with a partner. No matter how you feel about someone, make sure you know that person well and can trust him or her before you put yourself in a situation where you are alone. It is very important to communicate clearly about what you are comfortable doing and what you are not willing to do. This can be a bit embarrassing, but it is important for your safety, and out of respect for yourself and your partner that you make your boundaries clear. It is important for both men and women to say “no” to any activity which they are not comfortable with, or which they don’t feel ready to do.
For more discussion about relationship issues, communication strategies and advice, including Queensland state contacts and helplines, check out the Relationships Australia website www.relationships.com.au. (external site)
If you are sexually active, ALWAYS use a condom. This will reduce your chances of unwanted pregnancies and /or contracting a range of sexually transmitted diseases, including Hepatitis and HIV/AIDS. Check out the resources and information offered by the Ethnic Communities Council of Queensland under “Health Program” on their website www.eccq.com.au. (external site)
Last updated 19 October 2007
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